Sometimes, the best remedy for a love that you know will never be realized is to stay away. Staying away means letting go of the feeling and fostering other thoughts instead of being so carried away by the emotion. But the problem is that, to do this feat needs a lot of thinking, acceptance and courage. Can you really deal with your feeling this way? That is a sad but truthful question.
Of course, before we do anything we always think about it first. Some want to experience some adventure and they just jump into something without using their brains. Look at them now, they are somewhere where they regret of not thinking about their actions. Where? It is for you to think about.
Thinking is a natural human faculty but others do not know how to use it. We think in order to evaluate what things are right and wrong. Now, in terms of staying away from the person you adore, there is a lot of thinking that has to be done. Why? Well, who wants to be away from the person they love? If you say you want then you are just telling a lie. You have to think of the advantages and disadvantages of such action. One advantage is that you can shift your emotion into something more worthwhile and more important. Like for example, you can instead give your time to your family. But, I think the disadvantages will greatly affect you. Well, if you stay away from the person you love you will be hurt. Your days will not be complete and you will eventually lose your concentration in whatever thing you are doing. You will suffer more, most especially if you cannot say what you feel because if you do the world will lose its balance. Therefore, you will only become a pathetic creature. Where am I heading with this? Well, the thing is you must not consider staying away from the person you are crazy about.
It is not only about thinking but we must also consider accepting the fact that it will never, ever, ever be ours. Again, IT WILL NEVER BE OURS! Can you accept that?! Of course it is not easy to merely accept that and walk away like nothing happened. We are not numb and dumb. Acceptance maybe is one of the hardest things to exercise most especially if you don’t really want to accept things as they are. This is because if you accept it, you will end up sad and more frustrated. So what does this mean? Then it’s better not to accept it since it will make you happy and happy.
Another thing that you need to consider if you want to stay away from the person you love is courage. What kind of courage are we talking about here? Well, it’s nothing similar to the courage of the Titans or the Trojans. What you need is the courage to simply stay away. But the problem is, you only get a lot of courage, immense courage, to do your day to day routine whenever you are near the person you adore. Simply put, you can’t really stay away from her or him. The solution is, why stay away if you can’t?
Now, the thing is, humans as we are there are things that we really can’t do. This is because we have limitations to our being human. We feel pain, loneliness, happiness, and all that stuff. Therefore, staying away from the person we love is not really a good resort since we can’t really deal with the standards that have to be done in order for us to completely stay away as far as the moon. So, why stay away? Be close with that person and you will be happy and happy.

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